A Special Valentine Miracle Love Story

Yesterday, I received a beautiful Miracle Story from a very special person who committed to do the work in my Stay Married Online Course to transform her marriage. 

Since today is Valentine’s Day, I felt it most appropriate to share it with you, to illustrate as clearly as possible just how powerful unconditional Love is, when coupled with a Vision of the future you intend to create:

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Dear Mary,

We spoke about a testimonial... I wrote this some time ago.... but didn't complete it... I suppose there is a reason.... I did not post it as from me because there is a need for anonymity at this time.

You may want to announce this success.  My husband of 24 years told me in early June 2004 that he has met a girl, and has started a relationship with her. He still loves me and the children and nothing has changed. My initial reaction was to find the best possible way to leave him. Enough is enough, I thought. This isn't the first time and it won't be the last. I am all but ready to start anew with another man.

I bought books and surfed the internet and stumbled upon Mary's course. It wasn't what I was looking for. But the thing that made an impression was the question: "What do you prefer?" It encourages digging and finding out what my true, heartfelt desires really are. What do I genuinely intend and desire for myself.

What have I got to lose? So I purchased Mary's Stay Married Online Course. The first thing that the course did was to make me realize how I was also instrumental in pushing my husband towards his lifestyle. How the proverbs and expectations of the people in my community regarding a wealthy man's behavior. Mary told me about the cultural legacy that I am here to change not only for me, but for my children and the community..

Mary was also there for me as a personal coach.

Masterminding, Mary's coaching, the BB, the Stay Married Course, my MM partners have helped me in ways I could never imagine before. Not in the way I expect or in the time frame I desire -but it did.. IN Divine TIMING from unimaginable people met unexpectedly, things gradually change easily and effortlessly.

Mary told me to "paint a verbal picture of the future I desire". In all areas of my life - then turn it into a MM request.

My husband ended off his relationship in September last year.  From then to January, he was involved with several short-term relationships. His business colleagues and "friends" he kept in company with who encouraged his alternative lifestyle when he was traveling on business away from the family, gradually dissolve into nothingness - in their place, sincere charming people gently breeze into our lives.

On Wed, Feb 1, he called while he was on a business trip abroad. I was in a London-bound train on the way to class. He asked me, "Are you sitting down?" I said, "Yes." He told me that he has amazing news for me. He met a man through a business associate who changed his perspective on life etc. and he has come to realized a lot of things and he intends to be more involved in spending time with me and the children in spiritual activities. (We used to pray together regularly as a family but stopped doing so more than 10 years ago). He also said that he has freely chosen a "totally monogamous relationship with me" (his words). He is doing it willingly and gladly, without any prompting from me. This wise man also told my husband. "Tell your wife to give up the rifle for the rosary.... " I can't put it in words but I somehow understand what he is trying to tell me. He send us inspirational text messages daily. All this from a man who doesn't speak English from a small town in South East Asia. Who would have thought? Beautiful texts that I translate to English to disseminate to my loved ones.

Looking back, I realize that it is a gradual process and not as dramatic as he would like to think. I recall snippets of what he told me since last September which pointed towards the direction of spirituality and monogamy which he is being guided to. Our relationship is better now than pre-2004 days. Our differences dissolve faster. there is less anger and my relationships with all my in-laws, especially my mom-in-law has improved tremendously.  My husband’s relationship with my dad is also much better. 

Both of them seem to have undergone a radical change.

At the moment, my son who has been diagnosed bipolar is going through challenging times which I now prefer to call a healing process. I now see beyond what he is going through to a beautiful destination for my family..... where all of us are healed and whole and our cups are filled. He is in Australia while I am in the United Kingdom... Presently, he is very dependent on a cocktail of substances including weed and alcohol and has several depressive sobbing episodes. I am now able to see beyond all that to a future I intend to create for and with him. Nowadays, I do not agonize that I am too far away to help and how helpless, I feel about his situation.

Thanks to Mary and to Spirit, I now take a deep breath, relax and surrender what is bigger than me to Spirit to take care.. I speak in term of preferences and MM what I desire. I have also started writing it out as Mary suggested in her course.. The pen is indeed mightier that the sword...

At times, i write out what i wanted to say to my husband or children or other people. Thousands of miles away from my son, I pen, at times, poetry, and it makes me feel better and somehow I know for certain that he gets the message and is definitely healing in his own way and in Divine Timing. I know that God and his angels are guiding and protecting him.

To share with you, I wrote this last night after my daughter told me that some of my son's friend is convinced that my son is highly dependent on "those stuff".

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11.30 pm, Feb 9th 2006
Gerrards Cross

To My dearest Son,
from A Mother's heart,

Relax,
float,
rest,
Submit,
Surrender.

The Divine Presence will lift you
above the perceived hard rocks
to Gentle Mercy
to Harmony
to Unity
to Joy
to Peace
to Love

You ask me, "How, Mama?"

By remembering to return to a state of TRUST IN THE SOURCE or GOD.

To a world beyond substance. To a PRESENCE.

Don't confront your misery. Don't fight it. Don't escape it.

A very wise woman once told me "what you resist persists".

A very wise man once said to me, "Give up the rifle for the rosary".

Resurrection is through the Rosary
Resurrection is through Salaam

I see my son healed and whole. I see his cup filled.

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I don't know if I'd send what I wrote to him.. but am certain at some other levels he is getting my message...  You believe that, too, right, Mary?

Mary, you can use or not use my story from your coaching and the BB and what's written here as well as our emails in whatever way you want. Just let me see it first for accuracy etcetra.

I am now doing Languages in School of Oriental & African Studies of London University and will be specialising in translation from English to Arabic, Malay and the Indonesian Language and vice-versa.

I request and accept that I obtain 97% for the Post graduate Diploma in Communicative Arabic that I am pursuing now.

I request that SOAS accept me for the Masters Programme after this PostGraduate Diploma and the subsequent masters and PH.D programme I am doing.

Thank you Mary.

In Love, Peace and Light,
M

I am so pleased and thrilled for your marriage... and not the least bit surprised. It just takes the time it takes... And thank you so much for your story ... it's arrived just in time for Valentines day!

Regarding your son... I join with you in SEEING such beautiful, soothing healing light dissolve all his inner pain, confusion and separation of self ... and replace it with a peace and unification that passes all understanding.

What you wrote is beautiful. My son accepts stuff I write to him like this... so, because it is a mother's deepest love and devotion...  I say send it! It's OK to let him know how deeply you love him and see him as whole, and well and embraced by the healing light of your love.

And yes, he is already feeling your message... beautiful words are always a good thing.

Even if he dismisses you at this time... you can KNOW ... you've planted beautiful seeds.

I feel it's of greatest importance at this pivotal time to:

Hold him in your prayers as many times throughout the day as you feel the need.
Keep him up at the MM message board as often as you feel the need.

Let's move him through this quickly and easily now.

I see an easy clarity moving through him. Clarity, harmony, peace and a "light" mind and heart... I see him finding fun and purposeful activity. I see him filled with his sense of self and importance to this world. I see him productive and fulfilled. I see God's long arm reaching out over him and conditions controlling his situation and protecting his interests. I see new people with new messages and joy coming into his life. I see him helping others and feeling his purpose in that... I see and agree that it is for the highest good to ask God to bring healing to your son quickly, easily and in great peace, joy and light ... right here, right now.... day in... day out...

Lovingly in the Hands of the Father we place your son.... thanking God for perfect health and healing now.

I also see and agree that you obtain 97% for the Post graduate Diploma in Communicative Arabic that you are pursuing now.
I also see and agree that SOAS accepts you for the Masters Program after this Post Graduate Diploma and the subsequent masters and PH.D program you are doing.

This or something greater!
And so it is.

In light and love,
Mary

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