From the desk of ... Mary Robinson Reynolds
Re: Feeling stuck in your important relationship(s)?

People who get scared get stuck, and then they stop or quit ....

If you are feeling stuck in any important relationship in your life, you have an attitude going on right now that you've decided you are entitled to, which is causing a Catch-22 for you...

A very large percentage of people I've worked with over the years believe that the only thing left for them to do is to leave the relationship, and this is what keeps you stuck in repeat behaviors and outcomes.

The only problematic area here is your unwillingness to take a step forward to learn something new.

Let's start with you - because you are the one reading this - so this must be for you!

What's problematic is: You have ATTITUDINAL ENERGY getting in the way of absolutely everything you say you want in this relationship...

Whether it's the attitudinal energy of "I'm a victim" OR it's the attitudinal energy of "I'm entitled to tell the brutal truth anytime it suits me, no matter who it offends or hurts" ... this attitudinal energy will definitely keep you stuck in a world of hurt.

You have the power to stop the downward spiral of what's happening right here, right now by learning what WILL work, and it's not painful at all.

As you are learning, force and control gained through blame, shame, guilt, humiliation and disappointment are not working and will never work for self-sustaining, synergistic connection with the people you care about.

You are STUCK in the decisions you've made about people - based on your perceptions and limited - short sighted - understanding of what may or may have not actually happened or been happening.

It's your attitudinal energy that is getting you backlash, opposition, belligerence, "eye rolls" ... or getting you cut off, left and abandoned.

If you think you have to walk on eggshells, or if you fear rocking the boat, then you've got attitudinal energy going on and your circumstances will not change for the better without addressing it in the most effective ways that will bring you great relief with the simple and specific tools to keep that attitude of yours in check.

If you think that what works is using disappointment, shame and blame to get people to behave in the way that you deem is the right and only way, you have an attitudinal energy issue and you will not get the love you secretly want from using these hurtful, harmful and debilitating forms of behavior control.

Don't know what to do with your "truth" that will not get you backlash and greatly disconnected?

Exactly!

You don't know what you don't know ...but I do.

I have 30 years of professional experience with tens of thousands of people using my signature Re-Labeling system, User-Friendly Quantum Field Theory research proving the power of Attitudinal Energy to attract or repel what is really wanted.

You add all of this in to my Colors Personality Style system, and you've got your way through any impossible relational situation you are in.

But it's up to you. You are the one with all of the power here, whether you realize it or not... it's on you to learn something new.

There are a lot of ways to do personality styles ... BUT there is a BETTER WAY RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU and it WORKS to bring people together SYNERGISTICALLY.

It's all provided for you in my Connecting with Colors SYNERGIZE Your Life Program ... it will bring you relief and the peace - in all of your relationships and specifically those who you fear are impossible. Take the "IM" off, and the word left behind is POSSIBLE.

Take a break and come for a visit while I lay out step-by-step what you will be learning to do in every single relationship in your life...

Watch Video 4 here now.

Leaps of FAITH happen when the pain of "staying put" exceeds the fear of the unknown. Understand that the right kind of information can CALM the seas, rather than rock the boat you are afraid of rocking!

Behavior Modifications #1 Rule: Before you can change anyone else, you must first change yourself!

Reaching out to make a positive difference ...

Mary Robinson Reynolds
Author & Founder of Heart Productions & Publishing
makeadifference.com/SYL

Heart Productions & Publishing, Greater Boston Area, 800-639-8191