From the desk of ... Mary Robinson Reynolds
Re: How to Work Energetically with Difficult People ... Part 2
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It bears repeating: You can't have a negative attitude about someone and keep it a secret!
Dr. Phil was recently on Oprah discussing his "Evil 8 Signs of a Toxic Person" from his newest book.
Evil? Really! What incredibly inflammatory, hurtful, harmful, irresponsible and totally unnecessary labeling, i.e., name calling.
How does this help someone by flaming the fires of already intense situations - victimizing people even more than they already are believing themselves to be victimized - on both sides of the equation?
When I was counseling at an elementary school many years ago, I had a first grader referred to me by a teacher. The social worker, the school psychologist and the Principal ALL told me without blinking an eye, that this little boy was Evil.
A first grader! Evil.
Come on people ... listen to what you are saying and thinking. Be discerning. How about an ounce of understanding? I had that kid turned around within a few short weeks of first meeting him, because I re-labeled him and shifted the energetic communication.
Not everyone has the where-with-all to leave difficult relationships, and besides that, leaving is NOT the only solution in more cases than not.
And even in leaving, it seems that life keeps offering you NEW opportunities to do it differently than you have been, until at long last, you get yourself into enough pain that you become willing to learn something new so you can start getting new results!
So as they say, "You can run, but you can't hide" ... you can leave relationships, but they show up again, just in a different body.
And so the question becomes...
"How do you see a situation differently
so you can be the LIGHT in the room?"
There are lots of personality style instruments available ... and there's a BETTER WAY RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU here today, and it WORKS to bring people together SYNERGISTICALLY.
It's all provided for you in my newest, easy to read book, Connecting with Colors: Discover the Transformational Synergy of Personality Color Styles to Create Harmonious Relationships at Work, Home & Everywhere!
And to answer your Question: "Isn't Color Personality Styles a form of labeling?"
Answer: Yes! It is labeling in the affirmative. It SHIFTS energy upward, provided you don't throw a negative attitude in on top of it.
The primary focus of my Color Personality Styles system is upon the Strengths.
After working with 20,000 people in just a two year period, what I discovered is that it is not about weaknesses, it's about being too strong in our predominant style that can be problematic.
In my book, I show you exactly how to dial-in the other Color Styles you need to synergize the situations you are in.
If you want to see something healthy and humorous ... watch this! As you will be able to see by the audiences reactions, they are feeling better about themselves and each other; and people that feel better, do better!
A Great example of LAUGHING AT OURSELVES & WITH EACH OTHER!
In the audience that evening:
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"Thanks so much for coming to New Richmond and sharing your Connecting with Colors book and presentation with our community. Both are humorous, enlightening, and very entertaining. My husband attended as well and has been telling everyone he has met this week about how interesting the information was. He has also been paying closer attention to how others are communicating with him so as to better understand their communication style and adapt his behavior. It’s really been a noticeable change!"
Leaps of FAITH happen when the pain of "staying put" exceed the fear of the unknown. Understand, that the right kind of information can CALM the seas, rather than rock the boat you are afraid of rocking!
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Reaching out to make a positive difference ...
Mary Robinson Reynolds
Author & Founder, Heart Productions & Publishing
makeadifference.com/Colors
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